Monday, November 9, 2015

It’s okay to be a ‘bad’ Catholic




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Robert Orsi makes a brave choice in his recent book Between Heaven and Earth (Princeton University Press). “There’s a taboo associated with speaking out of personal experience in your academic work,” Orsi, a professor at Northwestern University, says. But Orsi ignores this taboo; his text interweaves historical scholarship on Catholic devotions with autobiographical anecdotes about his own Italian Catholic background. For Orsi, then, the academic and the personal are intertwined and inseparable.
Much of Orsi’s work focuses on the study of devotionalism—the personal relationships between humans and saints. But he cautions against reading his academic work as a defense of the practice or making assumptions about his own faith life.
You can be religiously observant and believe passionately in LGBT justice. On the other hand, you can fervently work toward ending abortion and barely attend Mass. While you might look at a Catholic academic like Orsi and think you know what he stands for, internal faith lives are much more complicated than stereotypes.
When you have an academic career that spans more than 25 years, it’s easy for people to put you and your ideas in a box. “I’ve become the spokesman for not rejecting devotions as an integral part of Catholic history, whatever one might think about them,” Orsi explains. “But I would have felt unhappy if I had looked at my ideas today and I hadn’t changed over time.”

A lot of your work has focused on individual relationships rather than theology or religious history as a whole. Why is this?

People are formed in a web of relationships. And it’s in that web where their ideas about religion and the way they inhabit the world come together in a very direct and intimate way.
It brings us right into history’s beating heart to look at family life in this way. For example, I tell my students that if you want to understand why a suicide bomber does what he or she does, it’s not sufficient, or even probably helpful, to only look at ideology or theology.
This is a very extravagant example, but it’s more important to look at peoples’ lives. To look at what their uncle said to them during childhood, what family stories circulated back then, and what stories they were raised on.
We’re born into stories that are already under way. We become part of these stories and taken up into those stories, and that’s the ground on which we become who we are.
Look at Catholicism. Everywhere you look, it’s about relationships; relationships in parishes, relationships with priests and nuns. We come to be who we are in networks of relationships that precede us.

How do personal stories help us understand the story of Catholicism?

I had an uncle who had cerebral palsy. I realized, after coming across a devotion to Margaret of Castello in my research, that my uncle had a very strong devotion to Blessed Margaret.
I began to use my own family as an archive for what I wanted to do. My own intellectual work is so deeply rooted in the environment from which I came and about which I have spent so much time thinking, that I think it adds a necessary dimension to my theoretical and historical work to bring that forth.
There’s an us/them structure in so much scholarship on religion. The idea that “they” are out there, religious people, and they do these things, and we—the scholars—study them. That always seemed ethically, politically, and intellectually suspect to me and increasingly untenable.
On the other hand, the historical and ethnographic work that I do and my personal family stories inform each other. Not directly, not in a sense of one supports the other—sometimes one undermines the other or challenges the other or recontextualizes it in some way. But I always seek to bring them into some productive, even if at times troubling, relationship.

Does the relationship between the personal and academic play out in your own personal practice of Catholicism?

This is one of the other great tensions in Catholicism: what happens in Rome on the level of the universal church in terms of theology, liturgy, sacramental theology, and so forth, versus what happens locally or individually.
Like all Catholic intellectuals, I sometimes envy Jews. People have many different options for being Jewish. You can be radically orthodox or radically liberal, and you have a whole spectrum where you can find your community within that.
Speaking personally—a modern, Catholic, intellectual, politically liberal scholar who is also intrigued by devotionalism and who rarely lets a week go by without saying a rosary—where is there a place for a person like me?
If I were Jewish, it would be the conservative movement. Speaking purely as a Catholic and not as a scholar, I’ve sometimes thought that it would be so great if there was an option like that. A place where you could be politically left, but devotionally conservative. Like Dorothy Day was.
But where is this space, the space for thinking about alternative ways of being Catholic, about asking yourself what you believe?

Isn’t that “cafeteria Catholicism,” taking the pieces of Catholicism that appeal to them and discarding the rest?

I never had any patience whatsoever with the contempt that was heaped upon so-called cafeteria Catholics. It seems to me that cafeteria Catholics are Catholics who are trying to make their way in a modern world with the religious inheritance that they have; they have to figure out how to be both authentically Catholic and, at the same time, true to their other ways of being in the world. It’s very challenging.

Are there alternatives to “cafeteria Catholicism”?

I’m always amazed at my students. I’m always surprised at the fluidity of their understandings of being Catholic.
They’ll say, for example, “I’m all for gay rights. I think that is just really essential. But I’m a conservative Catholic.” That’s fine to say, but I also think somehow that has to be raised to a level of intellectual inquiry.
I don’t know why they can just blithely ignore the tensions between what the church says and what they believe. I guess it has to do with the phenomenon of John Paul II Catholicism. My students want to affirm themselves as conservative Catholics, and yet, when you press them on any of their beliefs, they’re completely not conservative Catholic.
Which is fine. I’m not calling for consistency. What I’m asking for are spaces within the church, within the broad context of Catholicism, where these questions can be hammered out without the thunderbolts of either the right or the left falling down on us. We need a space where Catholics can explore the tensions between religious and social views without fear of condemnation and a sort of exile.
I also am pro gay rights. I have a gay child. But I’m aware of the tensions that this creates with being a Catholic.

Why don’t young Catholics see a conflict between these two beliefs?

I haven’t wanted to push them on this, but it’s a very interesting question.
Sometimes I wonder if it’s simply a kind of Catholic respectability issue. That this, in a way, is what it means to be a respectable Catholic. It is thought that to be a Catholic is not to be out there advocating for transgender issues, for example. In the same way that young people wear certain clothes, they want to present themselves in a certain way.
It might also be that there’s no context for what “conservative Catholic” means. It might also be that before Pope Francis there was simply no way to be liberal and Catholic. It might have been the same kind of protective covering that a Catholic in the 1970s would have used. “I’m a liberal Catholic,” but then when you pressed them, you would have found much more complexity than that name suggested. There was a certain kind of protective covering. It might just be another way of saying, “Leave me alone.” It’s a way of protecting yourself against having to think.

On a personal level, how do you deal with these tensions?

For me, this is the place to begin challenging and thinking theologically and devotionally about how one lives with these tensions. How can one work through these tensions as a contemporary Catholic?
But where is the space within Catholicism as a whole, except perhaps at a few Catholic universities? Where can you actually do that?

How do you start to open up these spaces in the church?

Catholics on both sides, intolerant Catholics on both the right and the left, contributed to creating a truly airless environment. Pope Francis is doing a very good job within the constraints of a very difficult position and within the constraints of a very problematic inheritance from his predecessor.
I am hoping that one of the things that this pope is doing is allowing for some circulation of air again where you can say, “You know what? I’m politically left, but I say the rosary. I support gay rights, but I also want to be a faithful Catholic.” He’s doing a very good job of trying to pry open spaces where Catholics can be thinking Catholics again, without having to fear what I’m calling the thunderbolts of condemnation.
But we still need to do more work. Where is the space where these conversations can happen? How can we think theologically and devotionally about these topics?

So things like supporting LGBT rights and preferring the Latin Mass aren’t mutually exclusive.

Absolutely. They are not. They are not. The question is, how do you come up with interesting combinations of those various possibilities?
I’m speaking only as a personal Catholic and well outside the organized church, but I think that in many ways the challenge for this particular moment in Catholicism is how to think about different kinds of being Catholic without the condemnation. From either the left or the right.
Is there a way to be able to say, without scaring all your liberal Catholic friends, “Sometimes I’d really like to go to a Latin Mass. That might be kind of cool,” without them immediately crashing down on you, or some analogous thing on the other side?

This hasn’t been possible in the past?

The dialogue often becomes quite dark.There are often thunderbolts of judgment coming from both the left and the right.
Think, for example, about women religious who have been trying to have the conversation about their role in the wider church in recent years. It’s been a very arid environment in which they were forced to have that debate. They were always looking over their shoulders for the feared judgment, trying to figure out who they were in relation to this church, being confronted all the time by figures who were ready to condemn them.
That’s a very dark environment for the kind of open exploration that I’m talking about. We shall see if there can be a lightening, so that people who find themselves in the sort of position that we’re in can actually work through these things without the thunderbolts.
I’ve spoken much more as a Catholic in this interview than I thought I would. I don’t know what’s happening to me
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What changed?

It might be these things have become clearer over time. It may be that I’ve gotten older. I’ve been divorced and remarried. It’s hard to see me as a traditional Catholic. And for many years, I was apprehensive to be perceived too clearly as a Catholic.
In academia, any hint of my faith life was going to mean that my scholarship was going to be viewed under a cloud of suspicion, I think. That was the reality. Maybe it’s just that I don’t care anymore.

How do academics like yourself create this environment within Catholicism that is open to more exploration?

Polls have empirically told us, “Look, Catholics in the United States, at least, are holding a whole bunch of different and contradictory understandings and practices.” But contentious Catholics on either side don’t want to listen to what these empirical polls are saying.
So why not create an environment in which these understandings and practices can be talked through and figured out, and Catholics can make their way toward what they see and what the polls are already telling us?
I can hear the voices of conservatism saying, “Yes, yes, this is just modern self-indulgence. If you’re a true Catholic, you just obey the church.” But I don’t think so. I mean, that’s a really good way to kill the faith.
For many, many years I’ve lived my career without paying a lot of attention to Rome. I mean, I like the city, and I go there all the time. There are some great restaurants in Rome, and it’s a great place to be. But whenever I begin a project, my first thought is not, “Well, let’s see what the official Catholic teaching is.” In fact, it’s the opposite. Instead, I say, “Let’s begin with people’s lived experience.”
When you’re a professor, then you often get asked the question, “What exactly are you doing as a professor of Catholic studies?” There are those who think that what professors of Catholic studies do is teach the official teachings of the church. That would be a very sad and limiting assignment for a professor. My role is to teach the lived diversity of the faith as I see it in the past.

If people are exposed to how diverse the faith was in the past, will spaces inevitably open up for diversity in the present?

On the level of Catholic studies, that’s a way to go: Look at how Catholics have lived, look at the different ways that Catholics have made lives for themselves.
I have also been surprised by how powerful the example of the pope is. If you compare the atmosphere, which we are all capable of doing, of the last two popes, it’s astonishing.
I suppose if one were a cynic, one could say, “Well, of course. You know, Catholicism is an institution like every other institution, and as the leader goes, so go all the sheep.” If you want your career advanced within Catholicism under Benedict, you’re going to have to behave one way. If you want your career advanced under Pope Francis, you’re going to behave in another way. But it is pretty striking to me nonetheless how everything feels different now and how quickly it shifted. I am stunned.

What was the shift?

When I first started teaching about lived religion and devotionalism, people asked, “Why bother teaching that stuff? It has no relevance.” In their minds, if you want to know about Catholic women, don’t look at what women were doing when they prayed to St. Jude. Instead, look at what the church teaches about women.
But if you listen to a lot of traditional Catholic discussions or teachings of men and women, you’d think, “Have they ever actually met a woman? Who is this? Who is this creature that they’re creating?”
John Paul II, may he rest in peace, was really indicative of this tendency. You begin with an ideal of a woman, you define the ideal, and then what happens in real life has to be accountable to the ideal.
The current atmosphere under Pope Francis could open the way for a new empiricism. This could be a very healthy development where people say, “Don’t give me idealized portraits of your mother transformed into a theology of women. Instead, let’s look at what Catholic women are actually doing and have been doing. Let’s look at what Catholic women have been doing for centuries.”
Then, in the context of what we see empirically, then let’s think about how we can understand Catholicism and women, Catholicism and gender, or Catholicism and sexuality. Don’t give me some really idealized version of Catholic sexual teaching. What are Catholics actually doing?

Do people realize that there are many different kinds of Catholics?

I’m amazed how in every survey Catholics in the United States come out liberal on every issue. You think, “Who are these Catholics who are happily filling out these endless surveys?” But then, when you look at the media, the only Catholics that seem to appear are not those Catholics.
I’ve wondered whether or not there is the need in American culture for Catholics to be a certain way. Catholics are expected to be a certain way, and it’s very hard not to be that kind of Catholic, given the serious cultural expectations. The New York Times would prefer it, I think, if we were all another kind of Catholic.
They even do this with Francis, and I worry sometimes. They’ve elevated him as this paragon of good Catholicism, and they’re going to be very disappointed. And I think they’re going to be happy to be disappointed when he does something that doesn’t conform to this image that they’ve created.
I tell my students that that’s what prejudice is: When you think you know everything about a person because of one aspect of them that’s visible to you, before that person even opens his or her mouth.
Whether they’re black or women or whatever, you think you know what the story is with this person. I think with Catholics, it’s very much like that in the United States. Certainly in academia: I know that the minute I say “I’m Catholic,” a whole set of things fall into place that are not articulated but are very strong.
If I say, “I’m a Catholic, but I really want to see space for gay people to worship as full members of the community,” then they’ll say, “You’re a bad Catholic.” They’re not even Catholics themselves, but they’re happy to exile me from my own tradition. At that point, I stop behaving as a Catholic they need me to be.
We have to be bad Catholics, obviously, always.

Is this set of cultural expectations new?

No, it goes back centuries, really. There’s always been, floating around, normative construals of what a Catholic is.
It would be interesting to go back and come up with a list of “bad Catholics” in history. We might find that they actually were very interesting Catholics. I think what “bad Catholic” means is that, first of all, these are Catholics who don’t conform to expectations that are imposed on them either by Catholics or, very often, by non-Catholics. They don’t act the way people want them to.
But these are Catholics who are really struggling to live with the dual inheritance both of their faith and the world they live in. If we were to come up with a list of bad Catholics, we might find that these were some of the most interesting Catholics who have somehow gone unnoticed because they fail to fit the standard stereotypes.

As we keep saying again and again, it’s in the places where people don’t conform where the really interesting stuff is happening.

Wednesday, November 4, 2015

The Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed (All Souls)


November 2, 2015


This time of year, our thoughts turn more and more to the place we call home.
Holidays are coming up.
There will be gatherings around the family table.
Home is our destination again and again.
We're drawn to the bright light that offers us comfort and warmth, especially during this cold part of the year.

But home is not just brick and mortar.
It is also people.
It is the arms that hold you.
The shoulders you lean on.
The people who share your joys and your tears — the ones who pray with you and for you, even after you are gone.
We are all a part of that — a community, a communion.

Yesterday, we celebrated the communion of saints.
Today, we honor a communion of souls.
Many are closer than we realize.
Just think about it.
They are in the stories we tell, and the jokes we share.
They are in the recipes we've saved, advice we've remembered, shortcuts we've taken, ornaments we've wrapped in tissue and saved to hang on the tree.
The people we pray for today are in a thousand small details that together make up the world we know.

They are memory.
They are life.
They are my mother and father.
They are our neighbors and friends.
They are parishioners we all knew and loved.

These are among the souls we remember and pray for this day — our communion of souls.
They are worth remembering, and cherishing, and celebrating.
The Church refers to them as "the departed," as if they were on a train that has left the station
Maybe that says it best.
They have finished their earthily journey,  reached another destination.
We hope they made it safely.
And we pray that one day we will join them, in that place of warmth and light, that place we all call home.

Solemnity of All Saints


Image: Hands, all together
from Art in the Christian Tradition, 
a project of the Vanderbilt Divinity Library, Nashville, TN.

November 1, 2015



This time of year, our thoughts turn more and more to the place we call home.
Holidays are coming up.
There will be gatherings around the family table.
Home is our destination again and again.
We're drawn to the bright light that offers us comfort and warmth, especially during this cold part of the year.

But home is not just brick and mortar.
It is also people.
It is the arms that hold you.
The shoulders you lean on.
The people who share your joys and your tears — the ones who pray with you and for you, even after you are gone.
We are all a part of that — a community, a communion.

Yesterday, we celebrated the communion of saints.
Today, we honor a communion of souls.
Many are closer than we realize.
Just think about it.
They are in the stories we tell, and the jokes we share.
They are in the recipes we've saved, advice we've remembered, shortcuts we've taken, ornaments we've wrapped in tissue and saved to hang on the tree.
The people we pray for today are in a thousand small details that together make up the world we know.

They are memory.
They are life.
They are my mother and father.
They are our neighbors and friends.
They are parishioners we all knew and loved.

These are among the souls we remember and pray for this day — our communion of souls.
They are worth remembering, and cherishing, and celebrating.
The Church refers to them as "the departed," as if they were on a train that has left the station
Maybe that says it best.
They have finished their earthily journey,  reached another destination.
We hope they made it safely.
And we pray that one day we will join them, in that place of warmth and light, that place we all call home.

Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time B

Lord, that I might see!
from Art in the Christian Tradition, 
a project of the Vanderbilt Divinity Library, Nashville, TN

October 25, 2015


For about 1500 years, from the time of Moses down to the destruction of Jerusalem by the Romans in 70 AD, Jewish worship centered on ritual sacrifices.
There was a special sacrifice for every circumstance and each one was grounded in a key insight into human nature.

For example, every morning began with the holocaust sacrifice.
An unblemished lamb and a loaf of the finest bread were burned on the altar, and a cup of choice wine was poured into the ground. Symbolically, the people were giving back to God the essentials they needed to live.
In effect they were saying, "We know it all comes from you, Lord, and we're very grateful."
How wise they were!

They had other sacrifices as well.
Sacrifices of praise and of thanksgiving.
Sacrifices for sins and for peace.
Each one had its own prescribed ritual and special meaning, but probably the most interesting of all was the sacrifice for unknown sins.

This was more than just a bit of insurance in case a person had skipped the fine print and ended up breaking some obscure rule he knew nothing about.
The sacrifice for unknown sins came from something the wise old rabbis had learned about human nature, and that is, sometimes we're all spiritually blind.
sometimes we just don't see ourselves clearly or accurately.
Sometimes we don't see what we're doing to others, what effect we're having on them.
Sometimes we don't see the big patterns in our lives, though everyone else sees them.
And sometimes we don't see the not-so-lovely ideas that are shaping our lives at the core.

Sometimes our blindness lasts just a little while, and sometimes a whole lifetime.
But always inner blindness is a hazard for every one of us.
It can strike any one of us at a moment's notice!
Now why is that so?
Why do good people like us fail to see so much?

I think there are probably two reasons:
First of all, very few of us were ever taught to ask carefully at every turn of the road, "What am I really doing, and why am I doing it?"
We just weren't taught to look methodically for the truth about ourselves.
And so, unseeing, we live on the outside of things.

Secondly, even those who were taught discover that quite often, as we begin to see, fear intervenes, and turns out the lights.
Fear of the ugliness we may see.
Fear of what we may have to change if we let ourselves see.
Fear that whatever is wrong will be too much for us.
Fear there's nothing of value within us.
And, so out of fear, often we live unseeing on the outside of things.

Our fears would be entirely justifiable if we were walking this road alone.
But we are not alone.
The Lord himself is at our side with his hand outstretched to steady and encourage and strengthen us.
We have no cause to fear now, and no reason to close our eyes any more, for there is nothing that we and the Lord cannot face together.
And so it is time for us to cry out with that blind man in the Gospel, "Lord, I want to see.

Lord, I am ready to see whatever there is to see, because now I know for sure that I'm not alone!"Click here for scripture readings.

Twenty-ninth Sunday in Ordinary Time B



October 18, 2015


The last sentence in today's gospel is one of the most remarkable sentences in all scripture.
Let's listen to it one more time:
"The Son of Man did not come to be served; he came to serve and to give his life to redeem many people."
Few sentences sum up the life of Jesus so perfectly.
One of the great Japanese Christians, Kagawa, trying to more closely follow Jesus, left his comfortable home and went to live in the slums of Tokyo.

He is quoted as saying:
"God dwells among the lowliest of people...
         He is there with beggars.
         He is among the sick.
         He stands with the unemployed.
         Therefore let the person who would meet God visit the prison cell before going to the temple.
         Before a person goes to church, let them visit the hospital.
         Before they read the Bible, let them help a beggar."

Kagawa’s example has to raise the question for all of us:: How can I live out the Gospel more seriously in my own life?
How can I imitate more closely Jesus' life of service to others?
The worst answer we can give is to say, "I can't move to the slums of Tokyo             and do what he did."
         And, having said that, proceed to do nothing.

Just because we can't do something courageous and dramatic doesn't mean we can't do anything at all.

All of us can do something be it ever so small and seemingly insignificant.
And the place to start is in our own homes.

Let me tell you a story about an example of how one person started in the home.

A boy was consistently coming home late from school.
There was no good reason for his tardiness and no amount of discussion seemed to help.
Finally, in desperation, the boy's father sat him down and said:
"The next time you come home late from school you are going to be given bread and water for your supper--and nothing else.
Is that perfectly clear, son?"
The boy looked straight into his father's eyes and nodded. 
He understood perfectly

A few days later the boy came home even later than usual.
His mother met him at the door but didn't say anything.
His father met him in the living room, but he didn't say anything either.

That night, however, when they sat down together at table the boy's heart sank down to his feet.
His father's plate was filled with food and his mother's plate was filled with food.
But his plate contained only a single slice of bread.
Next to his plate was a lonely glass of water.

The boy's eyes stared first at the bread, then at the glass of water.
This was the punishment his parents had warned him about.
To make matters even worse, tonight he was absolutely starving.

The father waited for the full impact to sink in, then, quietly took the boy's plate and placed it in front of himself.
He took his own plate, filled with food, and put it in front of the boy.

The boy understood what his father was doing.
His father was taking upon himself the punishment that he, the boy, had brought upon himself by his own delinquent behavior.

Years later, that same boy recalled the incident and said:

"All my life I've known what God is like by what my father did that night.

That story illustrates perfectly what Jesus meant when he said in today's Gospel,
"The Son of Man...came..to give his life to redeem many people."
Jesus came into the world to do for us what the father did for his son

Today's gospel holds out a challenge to us.
It challenges us to give our lives in loving service for others, as Jesus did.

Let me end by quoting from Lamar Williamson in his commentary on the Gospel of Mark.
It’s an important point to remember about our own weakness and God’s generosity.

Williamson writes: “although the disciples are slow learners, ambitious and selfish, they nevertheless continue to follow Jesus. Their relationship to him is imperfect, but it is also unbroken.” We too are invited to identify with the Twelve as the stumbling followers of Jesus, the shaky servants of the Lord.”1

As we seek to find our way in the world, we find ourselves just like the disciples:
We try to follow Jesus, but our relationship with him is imperfect,
We get caught up in trying to decide what job or position will give us the most status or money,
We wish others would admire us for the good things we do.
We look for places of more and more power.

But , Jesus tells us: “It will not be so among you.” It must not be so among you.”



1Williamson, Lamar. Mark, Interpretation [Louisville: John Knox Press, 1983], pp. 193-194.

Tuesday, October 27, 2015

Tolerance” is for menial things like mosquitoes and traffic jams. When it comes to other human beings, let’s seek more.




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Take a moment to think about the things in your life that you tolerate: your commute to work, heat waves, tax season. But every time I hear the word “tolerance” in relation to peers, beliefs, or opinions, I feel burdened and uncomfortable. The word does not evoke compassion or understanding. It creates a distance between me and the “other.” Tolerance, at its essence, is not inherently negative, as it is often the first step to improving tensions among people—tensions that may stem from class, religion, or ideology. But it is not enough.
The definition of tolerance can be a bit ambiguous. Tolerance can be defined by objectivity, lack of bigotry, and freedom of prejudice. Another definition is to allow the existence, occurrence, or practice of something without interference, even if it is something we don’t agree with or like. This definition also implies a power structure: one party “allows” the other to exist. The Latin origin of tolerance, tolerare, means to bear or endure, usually through some suffering. We endure the actions, beliefs, or opinions of others with whom we disagree instead of seeking a deeper understanding.
As the principal of a Jesuit elementary school, I strive for more than tolerance. Jesuit teaching calls for educators and students to seek magis, a Latin word that means “more” or “better.” I am called each day to go beyond tolerance and seek God in all things. If we simply allow ourselves to be tolerant, we stop short of truly embracing God through humanity.
At St. Aloysius School in Harlem, New York, where I work, my colleagues and I strive to seek magis through our daily interactions and school mission of helping students become young men and women for others. Only 20 percent of our students are Catholic. The majority is Protestant, and a growing number are Muslim. Through our recent workshops with The Tanenbaum Center for Interreligious Understanding this past year, we realized we have a great opportunity to practice our Jesuit ideals. We must learn more about the various faiths both in and out of our school so that we can, in turn, help our students become stronger in their own faith and accepting of others. By doing so, we will also develop more meaningful relationships with students and families of all backgrounds.
This does not mean that we disregard our school’s Catholic identity. We are still a Catholic institution whose educators will discuss and instill moral values through Catholic readings, texts, and traditions. But embracing the diverse range of faiths in our school community will help us engage our students more sincerely. It also provides opportunities to demonstrate the key similarities among world religions as well as how traditions can vary among different faiths.
If we want our students to become successful, they must become 21st Century Learners. 21st Century learning includes skills like critical thinking, communication, collaboration, and creativity. If Catholic schools do not intentionally model this inquiry, how can we expect our students to be ready to effectively analyze, synthesize, collaborate, and create with people who are different?
Leave tolerance for menial things like mosquitoes, traffic jams, and flight delays. Let’s seek magis and embrace the opportunity to acknowledge each other as fellow human beings.
Daniel Perez is the principal of St. Aloysius School in Harlem, New York.

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.The problem with biblical justifications for divorce What does the Bible really say?




By Father Paul Keller, C.M.F.| .

 If your hand or foot causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away! If your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out! It is better, we are told, to live blind and maimed than to be thrown into “fiery Gehenna” with all our body parts intact (Mark 9:42–48, Matthew 18:6–9). What are we to make of Jesus’ teachings? They seem pretty clear. However, interestingly enough, the Catholic Church would consider it a mortal sin if someone with sound mind willingly engaged in the sort of self-mutilation Jesus recommends. Now, let’s get that straight: If someone were to obey the seemingly clear teaching of Jesus about the benefits of self-mutilation for the good of one’s soul, it would actually be a mortal sin! The church interprets these verses as an example of Jesus using extreme exaggeration in order to teach a lesson. In this case, Jesus is emphasizing how important it is to worry about how our actions affect our eternal life with God, not literally telling us to cut of our own limbs. I am certainly not attempting to undermine the authority of scripture or to challenge Christ’s teachings. What I am trying to point out is that when using scripture to guide our moral lives, we almost always have to enter into a process of interpretation. And this process is not always as clear as we would like it to be. Some Catholics (including some bishops and cardinals!) have appealed to scripture to justify their positions on whether divorced and remarried Catholics can ever receive communion. The Extraordinary and Ordinary Synods on the Family held in Rome last October and this month, respectively, have garnered a great deal of press coverage because of these debates. But do these positions remain true to the tradition of biblical interpretation? The first thing that needs to be recognized is that nowhere does Jesus explicitly address the topic of who may or may not receive communion at a Catholic Mass. This seems like such an obvious point; however, one doesn’t need to read too many of these debates to find that some on both sides seem to forget this fact. Let’s take a look at some of those scriptures that are seen as relevant to the debate. Those who argue for a more “merciful” or “pastoral” approach appeal to the scriptures where Jesus spends time with sinners, sharing meals with them and causing scandal with the religious leaders of his time. One might look at passages like Mark 2:17, Luke 5:30–32, or Matthew 9:12 where Jesus tells the Pharisees, “Those who are well do not need a physician, but the sick do. Go and learn the meaning of the words ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’ I did not come to call righteous but sinners.” When the Pharisees and Scribes complain that Jesus welcomes sinners, Jesus responds by telling them the parables of the Lost Sheep, Lost Coin, and Prodigal Son (Luke 15:1–32). Jesus tell us that those who expect to enter into the Kingdom of God may be cast out with “wailing and grinding of teeth” while “the last shall be first” (Luke 13:22–30). When Jesus encounters a woman accused of committing adultery, he does not condemn her, but tells the gathered crowd “let the one among you who is without sin be the first to throw the stone at her” (John 8:7). Violating the social restrictions of his time, Jesus speaks with a Samaritan woman at a well despite the fact that she has had five husbands and the man with whom she currently lives is not her husband (John 4:4–42). Of course, none of these passages explicitly deal with who may receive the Eucharist. However, many find it difficult to reconcile this image of Jesus with the position that no divorced and remarried Catholic may ever be allowed to receive communion under any circumstances. On the other side of the argument there is just as much biblical justification. In Mark’s Gospel, Jesus explains that even though Moses permitted divorce, this was not God’s plan. Jesus tells the Pharisees that “what God has joined together, no human being must separate” (10:9). Later, Jesus privately tells his disciples, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her; and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery” (10:11–12). In Paul’s letter to the Romans (7:1–3) we are told that a woman must not consort with another man as long as her husband is alive, lest she become an adulteress. None of these passages mention communion either. But the reasoning goes that because a divorced and remarried couple is understood to be in an ongoing state of adultery, they should not have access to the grace available in the Eucharist until they have abandoned their adulterous relationship (or at least committed to sexual abstinence for the rest of their life together). Those advocating for greater leniency on who may receive communion are not arguing that the marriage covenant can be dissolved (which is a matter of church doctrine), but only that there may be some circumstances that allow a couple to receive communion (a matter of church discipline). However, church doctrine and discipline are intimately connected. A change in church discipline can affect how one understands doctrine. Even though no one is advocating a change in doctrine, the understanding of how the church interprets scripture and applies this interpretation in its teaching on the indissolubility of marriage is not as clear cut as many seem to believe. For example: Matthew’s gospel (19:1–12) also tells us that to divorce and remarry is to commit adultery; however, there is an exception if there is porneia. In the various English translations of the Bible, this word might be translated to mean “lust,” “unchastity,” “unfaithfulness,” “wantonness,” “fornication,” “incest,” or simply if the marriage is “unlawful.” It seems that there is a biblically-based exception to the teaching about the indissolubility of marriage and we are not even sure what that exception is. What does this word mean? In light of the ambiguity, where does the benefit of the doubt go? Should we introduce a certain humility in the way this teaching is interpreted and applied? Does the church even teach that marriage is indissoluble? Actually, no. You may or may not have heard of “Privileges of the Faith,” or Pauline and Petrine Privileges. The Pauline Privilege, based on the First Letter to the Corinthians (7:12–15), allows for the dissolution of a marriage between two unbaptized people if one of them becomes Christian. Confused? Suffice it to say that nowhere in the gospels does Jesus provide for this exception to his teaching about marriage and adultery. The description of this can be found in the Code of Canon Law (1143). Therefore, The Pauline Privilege represents a particular interpretation of 1 Corinthians and then an application of this interpretation to a specific pastoral circumstance. There is another “Privilege of the Faith” sometimes called the “Petrine Privilege.” It involves a baptized Catholic who married an unbaptized person (with permission from the church) and now wants to marry another Catholic (or other baptized Christian). In these circumstances, the pope can “dissolve the marriage bond.” Is this situation addressed in scripture? Of course not. This exception represents another instance where the church is interpreting the spirit of the scriptures and then applying this understanding to a specific pastoral situation. The church teaches that the only marriages that are indissoluble are sacramental marriages that have been consummated. Now, Jesus didn’t talk about “sacramental marriages” or “consummation” when he addressed remarriage and adultery in scripture. But, the church has done what it has always done (and always can do); seek the guidance of the Holy Spirit in interpreting the scriptures and applying these interpretations to specific pastoral circumstances. There is no reason that the same process of interpretation shouldn’t continue today. -.